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Stop. Rewind. Do-over.


4/18/90

Sometimes, I just wish that my life was being played on some VCR somewhere.

Then, when I say or do something stupid, or when I say something wrong, I could just rewind the tape, and say it like I wanted to say it.

That would be great, but I’m afraid I’d spend all of my time rewinding.

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This week’s Query is all about learning from your mistakes!

Click here to see how people answered this question:

What’s something you learned The Hard Way?

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Really Valuable Lessons…can really suck

When I was 14, I learned a really valuable lesson.

And it really sucked.

The lesson I learned is that not all of your friends are actually friends.  It took me about a year to figure this out, but I did, and at the same time, I learned that sometimes you just have to cut your losses.  There are some people who you just can’t be friends with, or rather, that you shouldn’t be close friends with.  You shouldn’t work hard to nurture intimate friendships with people who behave in ways that are against to your best interests, with people who damage you.  These are not friends.  I believe. Read more

What a great day looks like…

Yesterday, I got to spend the day with my fabulous sister and her two girls.

First we took a walk downtown.  Amanda was uncharacteristically untalkative. Her mother and I were characteristically quite talkative (so that worked out just fine).

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Amanda Rides

Allison does, too.

We enjoyed the sights.

Finger Walking

What is that?

Bumble Bees

 Then there was swimming!

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What’s She looking for?

Did she find it?

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Amanda splashes her face almost every time she comes up out of the water. I'm wondering where she got this from?

Maybe she just likes making a splash in general.

The afternoon ended as it should…with ice cream!

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And for some of us, a nap (though not for as many of us as wanted one).

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What’s in a Word?

just words

words that I like

words that sound like what they are

words that sound like they taste

words that roll off the tongue

words that are a feast, in and of themselves

orange

enamoured

cool

quinine

hush

pulsating

rhythmic

devine

if you’re a writer of any kind

you know the power of words

not just their meanings

but their structure

how long they are or short they are

or easily comprehended

or hard to digest

Righteous

brittle

colloquial

sob

thunderous

M’s bring your voice down like the mumbled murmurs of a murderous mob

S’s are sssslinky and sssslithery and they sssslide down your gullet

gullet – now that’s a good word

Z’s are more zingy and zippy and even a bit zesty

they’re zealous and so full of zeal

violet

velocity

vindictive

vicious

vociferous

V’s are so very very vivacious!

eviscerate

wretched

absinthe

incinerate

loath

why are so many words I like creepy

harbor

grace

tadpole

elation

how is it that a few simple words can

brighten my mood or make me feel good

or make me feel better about myself

quill

fortitude

brazier

scrumptious

quiver

bulbous

some words are fun to say

and some are fun to mean

flatulence

transient

rhubarb

gelatinous

sensual

lugubrious

words are flexible and versatile

and interpretive and so powerful

even though they’re just words

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